Do you have what I need? Do I have what you need? Are we clear about what that is? Are you giving? Are you kind? Do you want what is best for me to grow? Are we incredibly attracted to each other (helps working through the challenges)? Do we have that special something besides all this? You can just see when two people are a match. They fit together.

Where are we in our life? Is this the time to be serious about a relationship? Is my education complete? Do I have debt? Do they have debt? Are we both in a position of paying that debt back? Is one or both of us dependent ( taking and not giving)? Are our back rounds and families compatible or do we prefer that they are not (Want something totally different)?

What about having children, career, finances, religion, sexual preferences, where live, division of labor and how you want to play? Sometimes the attraction can feel so right and some of these other factors can be good or be so wrong. No one wants to be alone. It takes strength to commit and it takes strength to walk away when it isn’t compatible.

Where are you in your relationships? I hope that you have found that special and right one. If not, this one has gotten you more ready for the right one. Blessings-Kathy