I often work with singles looking for their true love. They hope that each new contact will be that special ”one”. I have great empathy for this search. I remember many years ago when it seemed like I would never find the right ”one”. I was having fun dating but longed for that special love connection. It would feel so good someday to know that someone really got who I was.

So why is it so difficult for so many people to find their “true love”? Well, every individual is different and finding the one who can understand who you are, your feelings, wishes, hopes and dreams and can give that right back isn’t an easy task. First you need to figure out who you are. What do you need in a relationship? How did your back ground shape you? How do you feel about affection, sex, money, education, faith, entertainment, recreation, family, children, and more. Getting to know yourself through dating is a process that can teach you too. You can discover how you react to different types, shapes, sizes, personalities and character.

Bottom line, there is no hurrying the process. I wish that I could tell you something different. As I walk this journey with clients I remind them that that awful or wonderful date taught them something new. So don’t give up or settle for less than what you require. Mr. Right or Ms Right is out there I am sure. You have to do the searching inside yourself as well as out. A lot of the search can be fun too. So enjoy yourself!