Do you feel this way? There is something about all the extras to do and choices to be made that can create overwhelm. So what do you think those feelings do to your relationship skills? Do you show your beloved enough attention and affection and do they show it to you? Are you short with other loved ones and friends? (Maybe they are on that long list too).

Stop! Take a deep breath. Remember what is important in life. Love, relationship, and caring. The other stuff is less important. Make an efficient list. After all, the perfect present is not as important as giving and receiving love.

I would like to hear what you have done to make this a loving holiday season